houston, we have a problem

um. okay. i have a minor problem.

so, i may or may not have planned my whole wedding without calling my church to make sure my day was available.....i mean, there is plenty of time.....so i called today, only to be told that 'we dont do weddings in december' because of the christmas programs, etc. WHAT?!? you.have.got.to.be.kidding.me. she may have stunned me into silence. i was met by 'hello, are you there?' 'ummhmm. okay. thanks. bye.' click. are you freaking kidding me?!?


NOW WHAT? its the friggin dead of winter and 4 of the 7 of my bridesmaids are from down south and would never survive an outdoor wedding, not that i would even think about it. its just not possible. and NO, im not changing the date. i WANT a winter wedding.....grrrr......

any ideas????? maybe we will just elope....that idea is getting better and better..... :/